Married life

More often than not my friends ask me, "Howz married life man?" There are few things that can described in such cases. I mean, how do they expect it to change ? You sure cant stop going to the loo first thing in the morning nor would you take a break from work simply coz you not feeling like it.
But then, its surely not like it was before. You had to answer to only some one person (your mum or dad) and then u were scot free. It was routine for something like 25 years and hence the effectiveness for obvious reasons had been declining ever since u thought u had wings to fly high and reach and achieve everything you would lay your sights on. Now though there is someone who waits for you when you come back home. (and in the case of some, u wud have to wait for to come home :P)

Things change, your likes, your dislikes.. your wishes and much more. You want to eat this and she despises it(More often than not its the case), now you realise why someone said that opposites attract. She is someone who loves you the utmost with the purest of heart and hates u with equal intensity when you decide to stay longer on tour, or when you are away from her. Its that ferocity of emotions which are new, something you gotta get adjusted to.

A few years of courtship would be more than sufficient to understand your partner and then there is really a sweet simple nice smooth ride ahead of u. There are friends who are really depressed at the fact that they cant stand up to their spouses and then there are quarrels. Isnt it only compromise which allows for peace. Oh yes, she loves masala papad and i love mushrooms. It takes sometime to accept it and go with the flow.. :)

But then... it surely is a nice feeling. SOmething that I am sure is difficult to express correctly in words(sans jokingly).